Have you ever been overwhelmed with too many options? How about too many GOOD options? I’m the kind of person who likes to consider as many possibilities as possible before a decision, and it doesn’t help me if the options are all favorable. I frequently get overwhelmed with such decisions. Even if it’s a relatively […]
Just enough light: Part II
If you haven’t read “Just enough light” yet, take a minute and do that. Arriving at the cottage after dark is always an adventure, particularly if I have forgotten to bring along a flashlight. Without one, I shuffle carefully toward the cottage, mindful of but blind to the many roots, rocks, and bumps that lie […]
Getting centered
I love watching a skilled potter. As the wheel turns, it almost looks like the potter’s hands bring the clay to life, forming the outside and inside of the vase from the bottom up. It looks easy enough. I know it’s not. A student told our university class about making pottery on a wheel. She said there were […]
It’s not about the t-shirt
Some time back I was sitting at one of my favorite spots for getting serious work done, the Pancake House, coffee at my fingertips, papers spread across the table in my booth. As I wrote, I was aware of a conversation going on between two college women in the booth behind me. I was not […]
Getting the right kind of help
When the firecracker blew up in my hand, I knew I needed help. Steve and I had been playing in his back yard doing what most 11 year-old boys do when unsupervised; taking unnecessary risks. We were lighting firecrackers, holding them until the fuse burned down a bit, then throwing them. That’s fine as long […]
Letting go of prejudice
Changing one’s mind is one of the three hardest things for a person to do, according to Anthony de Mello. The other two are returning good for evil and admitting we are wrong. But those two are for later articles. Changing our minds isn’t about compromising our principles or reversing our position on an issue […]
Response to the Texas budget crisis
By the time you read this, the Texas House of Representatives will have voted on and likely passed the state budget which severely cuts the funds for public education. This will, of course, have significant repercussions not only for those who work in our schools, but it will negatively impact the state over the long-term. […]
Letting go of the outcome
I watched a little drama unfold one day in the hallway of the counseling center where I worked. One of my colleagues had been teaching another colleague how to knit. The new student of knitting brought his first product to work to show. It was the first 8” of a scarf. As he proudly displayed […]
Letting go of needless stuff
I’m a bit of a sucker for those TV shows that transforms a house that has been overtaken by clutter. I’m not talking about hoarding. That’s a whole ‘nother level of disorder. I’m talking about people like me who accumulate stuff because we like it or think we need it, only to discover at some […]
Ordinary People
If I introduced you to friends of mine by saying, “Hi, I want you meet my friend, Chris. He’s an ordinary person,” you might be offended. If school handed out bumper stickers that instead of reading “Honor Student,” read “Ordinary student: Struggling Hard, Learning Lots,” would we be inclined to put that on our cars? […]